Tomorrow will be three months since the death of Brandon. I still don't know how to process it. Brandon had a special connection with each person that he knew. I morn what I had with him. As a mother you give birth to this child and watch them grow and become their own person but they are still very much a part of you. I can't even process the fact that he is not physically in this world with us anymore. Brandon had a way about him that let you know there was a special connection. His insight to the world around him was amazing. You know that you have such great hope for your children. Brandon was destined to march to the beat of his own drum from an early age. He touched alot of people, it is hard to know that his words of wisdom are not a phone call away or that I won't be wrapped in one of his awesome signature hugs again. But I know that he is here with us still and will walk with us through out the rest of our lives. He already knows the words that were left unsaid. I have to believe that. I have to believe that one day I will understand what God's plan was in all of this, But right now I would be lying if I said that it doesn't hurt like hell. That I don't cry everyday for my child. That this has changed me forever. And I thank God everyday for Brandon's Dad and Mary because I just don't think that I could make it through this alone. Hopefully this journal will see brighter entries in the future. Just needed to vent a little. RIP my sweet son, until we meet again you will live in my heart forever! Love, Mumsy

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